I was fairly satisfied with KT's responses to fans' concerns regarding #1. If the Bobby/Kurt scene was meant as them joking, that's how I'll see it.
As for Mystique...I wish she would have revealed that, having heard of the "wedding of the century", Mystique had decided to crash it with the intent of doing something nefarious, but, realizing that it's her daughter's wedding instead, her tiny little heart grew three times larger and she scrapped her plans for Rogue's sake. It would have made more sense to me...and yeah, Rogue wanting her mom there isn't surprising. It's an emotional day for her. Even if her mother is as crazy as they come...
They took my question. Dope stuff.
Ha! I guessed (correctly) it was you, Don. I find it hilarious KT totally misinterpreted the question at first...