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Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« on: February 11, 2019, 08:31:23 PM »
What is your view  ... as in if you wrote it. What would it be? Think about it ... if you liked it or don't or if there was something you thought worked ... what would it be?

Gonna quote Icefanatic here .. because he made me see what I would have liked ... Thank you.

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Gambit and Rogue series should be something like the late TV show 'Good Behavior' that aired on TNT. A combustible relationship between two people who are formidable apart and unbeatable together. That's more what I would want for a Gambit/Rogue book.

Look up TNT's 'Good Behavior' ... That is to me what romy should be for me. It may not set well with others but it fits them for most of the stuff. Rogue would need to be adjusted. Not quite like Letty, a tad more clean cut but with Rogue's background it would be fine ... don't @ me (twitter lingo)  LOL
Gambit would be on par .... it would work .. he is  .. could be Javiar.

This would be more interesting than what is presented in MMX. But ... lets see what you want. LOL
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #1 on: February 12, 2019, 02:41:28 AM »
I have not seen Good Behavior but from what you are saying, it sounds like it encapsulates a good relationship for the two. Might watch a few episodes or binge it if its good haha but I'll come back with more thoughts after that.
In the 90s, the relationship seemed all about tension and it was unique for them. More than the standard 'will they/ won't they' style because there had to be a degree of masochism from both parties and a degree of sadism. They ended up almost taunting each other with happiness and then one or the other would lose it in a moment of weakness. Admittedly, that isn't sustainable story telling for 3 decades but it did work for a time because the audience and the characters got the occasional pay off. The pay off almost always (to my hazy memory) seemed to be punished immediately but people do like the tragic love stories.
Now, in a very serious way, Rogue is the crux of the problem. A 'happy ending' will almost always imply children ever after and, with the scope of Rogue's power, that becomes a hard narrative hurdle. Maybe having her decide to pull a Remy and ask Sinister remove a part of her brain to make her abilities more manageable. Healing factors would need to be addressed but I do like the idea of Rogue getting the idea from a time the Gambit opened up to her and it would give Remy another reason to mistrust Sinister.
We could then also get a Remy/Rogue clone that is the best of both and is, inevitably, a villain (from the future) and the X-Men must defeat them.
Well, that took a turn >.>
The major change that I would make would be that they would start being strong for each other. When Rogue is going defeatist mode because she can't touch without a power inhibitor, Gambit would do more than say sweet nothings, he would blow her self made cage to pieces because he is still happy with her. When Gambit is feeling that self loathing martyrdom/ hero complex out of punishment, Rogue would be there to remind Gambit that he has changed and become better and can continue to grow, that he has friends ( who did we decide on? Laura, Storm, and uhhh Sinister?), that the X-Family wouldn't be the same without a little Cajun.

They would eventually stop sniping at each other in moments of weakness and realize that one can weather the storm for the both of them. That way, they could keep the banter but without the 'hitting below the belt' subtext that we get now.

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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #2 on: February 12, 2019, 02:47:30 PM »
This is a really interesting question Neko, great topic. I'm gonna have to think about this before I answer it. I need to look up Good Behavior too, I've never heard of it.

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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #3 on: February 12, 2019, 04:58:06 PM »
Gratuitous sex.
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #4 on: February 12, 2019, 05:00:54 PM »
Good Behavior is a dark drama. I think Rogue would bring out the best in Gambit, as Letty does for Javier.

Two seasons, not sure if it will have a third.
Yes, there is some gratuitous sex in the show too. LOL
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Everyone take your time. It's not an easy to figure out what one would want type topic. But I am curious as to what all of you come up with. :)

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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2019, 03:06:44 PM »
To me it is simple.  A Rogue that actually loves and rights for Gambit.  This is currently a one sided love affair where Gambit does all the heavy lifting.


XXM Romy and XTAS Romy was great because there was a give and take and at the end of the day you knew they both loved each other and had each other's back.


This current version just feels like Gambit is desperate to be with Rogue and Rogue is with him because she feels obligated to be with him because of said desperation.  In short, Gambit loves Rogue and Rogue loves the fact that Gambit loves her.
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #6 on: June 18, 2020, 01:59:13 AM »
I've been a hardcore ROMY shipper since I was a kid and, like Dido, I will go down with this ship. 

That being said. . .  it's also one of the main reasons I've veered away from comics.  I love these two together and think they can legitimately function as a supportive and healthy couple if given the chance.  I did enjoy many things about KT's run.  She came the closest to making sense of some of Rogue's previous choices.  But there were also some things that bothered me.  It's been a while since Rogue has begun to basically be a workaholic who seems to  everything in front of Remy while he waits around to support and cheer her on.  This was addressed a bit in Mr.  & Mrs.  X Volume 2 but it still broke my heart that he assumed Rogue would go to Logan and Scott before coming to him.  And that he was ok with that. . .  She showed he was wrong, but still, the fact that she just dropped everything to run off and "do good" after they escaped Mojo's clutches really irritated me. 

There were also a few times where it felt like it veered too close to celebrating the dysfunction as just "So typical ROMY!" rather than resolving it.  And, along with some of the other suggestions that have been posited, I'd like that to change.  Most of the drama between them seems to be born out of the widespread belief that happy, healthy couples do not interesting stories make, and I think in general there have been a lot of examples in television and books showing that that's not the case.  It doesn't mean stuff never comes back up or tension never occurs again.  But, just that it's not the automatic go-to of uncertain or cyncial writers. I'd like to just see them move on from it; they've been over their mistakes ad nauseum.  It'd be nice to see them legitimately move forward, and, no, I don't think it's such an impossible feat even given everything they've been through.

As others have noticed, I'd also allow them to be strong individually as well as a couple.  I don't like Gambit just being an appendage of Rogue's, either.  Neither of them, imho, is being used to their maximum potential and it's the main reason why I only cautiously venture back into comics to see what's going on.  I feel like a lot of writers just carry the problems foreward because it's the established pattern and they don't know what to do with them beyond what's already been done.  Even if dipping back into the much older issues would, I think, give them plenty of ideas if they were interested.  Just doesn't seem like they are.

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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #7 on: June 18, 2020, 03:07:28 AM »

Hi, Varia :)

Workaholic Rogue in MMX and  Gambit that assumed Rogue would go help Logan and Scott first felt real for me. Last arc in MMX is my favorite from  this series. They are not perfect as individuals and not as couple but it is normal. No one are.


MMX had some awesome moments and some not good. Overall for me it was fine and probably had more good things.

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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #8 on: June 18, 2020, 12:16:45 PM »
Hi purplevit!


Oh, the good definitely outweighed the bad for me, too! I didn't mean to give the impression that I thought they should be "perfect" as characters or as a couple.    That would be no fun and absolutely not realistic at all.    I think what I'm trying to get at is that I'd like to see more balance.   


Rogue is heroic and self-sacrificing and it's an aspect of her character that's always been there and that I love.   Sometimes, though, it comes off to me like she uses "X-maning" as just another excuse to run away from her feelings.  Gambit assuming she'd go to Logan and Scott before him WAS definitely realistic given the circumstances and, as he implies, it's part of what he loves about her.  Again, I'm glad she proved him wrong.  I guess that combined with the stuff in Excalibur though makes me feel like the writers just write him as passively going along, not really allowed to feel much that's in conflict with her goals. 
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #9 on: June 18, 2020, 02:37:00 PM »
Yeah. Rogue is a runner and usually is running from hard choices. Don here not long ago made a few great posts about this Rogue's aspect of running from things.


Excalibur is really bad. It is just a book with a low quality of writing. In my head it never happend;)

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« Reply #10 on: June 18, 2020, 03:29:27 PM »
Oh? Can you direct me to where some of those posts are? I'd be very interested in reading them. 


And yeah, I'm choosing to also just ignore Excalibur, atm.   It can be hard to even do that though, because it seems to kind of pile on the idea that Gambit's problem IS Rogue, rather than just the bad writing that plagues them both.  I could be getting the wrong impression but it feels like that idea is a bit pervasive when it comes to Gambit.   I just want to see both of them written well as characters AND as a couple.   
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #11 on: June 18, 2020, 03:52:52 PM »
In my opinion, I wish they would've just continued MMX instead of ending it for Excalibur. Excalibur is awful and honestly I'm not a fan of the X-men universe in general in the comics right now. MMX had it's issues but there was some good stuff in there including the final arc. Which could've been stretched out more had the title not been forced to end.


I think they can remain a good solid married couple for years to come, in theory. The problem is different writers come along and are either bad, not knowledgeable, don't like Gambit, have a weird obsession with Rogue, or all of the above and really screw things up and that winds up being canon and before you know it the whole thing is an ugly mess. It's hard to be optimistic about it.


I hold out hope for the MCU. It's a chance to start things over and avoid the convoluted crap they wind up doing in the comics. If it were me, I would stretch out the early flirtatious part of their relationship as long as I could because it's the funnest and also doesn't tie him down in a relationship too soon so we can see him have some fun and not have to think he's a jerk all the time because he's not being faithful.



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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #12 on: June 19, 2020, 04:18:41 AM »
In my opinion, I wish they would've just continued MMX instead of ending it for Excalibur. Excalibur is awful and honestly I'm not a fan of the X-men universe in general in the comics right now. MMX had it's issues but there was some good stuff in there including the final arc. Which could've been stretched out more had the title not been forced to end.


I think they can remain a good solid married couple for years to come, in theory. The problem is different writers come along and are either bad, not knowledgeable, don't like Gambit, have a weird obsession with Rogue, or all of the above and really screw things up and that winds up being canon and before you know it the whole thing is an ugly mess. It's hard to be optimistic about it.


I hold out hope for the MCU. It's a chance to start things over and avoid the convoluted crap they wind up doing in the comics. If it were me, I would stretch out the early flirtatious part of their relationship as long as I could because it's the funnest and also doesn't tie him down in a relationship too soon so we can see him have some fun and not have to think he's a jerk all the time because he's not being faithful.





I hold out hope for the MCU too because it is our last and only chance to get cool Gambit again. If MCU Gambit is lame then he is done.


The problem is that I was waiting as most Gambit fans for solo movie since 2014. If D+ rumours are true then end 2023 or 2024 is the earliest possible dates for it release. It is 10 years of waiting of Gambit solo content. Crazy.




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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #13 on: June 21, 2020, 11:59:53 AM »
I think a lot of the problems we have with the characters being unevenly represented is the lack of editorial control. Most of this boils down to writers basically being allowed to do whatever they want. Throughout all time coming through the 90s, while every writer wouldn't be the same or have the similar ideas as the last - they'd at least respect what came before.


I believe the separation between writer and editor showed up around New X-Men, Morrison's run. Marvel editors seemed to be intimidated by the man. They had more reverence for his freedom than they did Claremont in terms of how different he was allowed to interpret the X-Men. They let him change everything seemingly overnight. It might have been at their request as it came right after the X-Men movie.


For all it did for the franchise in my opinion it hurt the comics grasp of continuity as the company wanted to ride the movie franchise's coat tails. That's also where we had a huge drop off between Gambit and Rogue. Rogue was a major player in the movie, thus got more attention whole those who were not got sidelined, banished and in a couple cases, killed off.


Whether they liked it or not, the couple was still a draw up to that point but again, with little oversight creators like Milligan and Carey (another Morrison super star writer type) didn't have their ideas reigned in and just went off the wall. We got Deathbit and then Racky Lebeau. Neither faired well against the movie darling Rogue had been turned into. Gambit became a running joke and with all the freedom given to the Remenders, Duggans, and Carey's of the world, they openly mocked the character with no correction.
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Re: Romy: Your take ... What would you do, if you could.
« Reply #14 on: June 21, 2020, 01:01:03 PM »
Quote from: DonPriceTag link=topic=5223.   msg78022#msg78022 date=1592755193
Neither faired well against the movie darling Rogue had been turned into.    Gambit became a running joke and with all the freedom given to the Remenders, Duggans, and Carey's of the world, they openly mocked the character with no correction.   


Which is interesting because Rogue in the movies, IMHO, paled drastically against Rogue in XTAS and the comics.    Even when she was being shopped as a possible team-up with Logan in one of his films, it was as a damsel-in-distress.   


Either way, I agree with you about the lack of editorial oversight and the lack of regard for continuity.   It seems like writers are often at a loss for how to take the characters (not just Rogue & Gambit) forward in a way that still takes what's come before into consideration.   So, they basically either throw stuff at the walls to see what sticks for the characters they don't know how to handle or.  .  .   bring their personal fanfiction to life in the case of the characters they're actually interested in.  Weird Frankenstein creations result. . .
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